February 2015 - March 2015

February went by super quickly. I finished my volunteer training, Stephen continued work and school, and we both celebrated our 4th valentines day together. We actually realized it was our 5th together. Remember our orchestra/choir tour? 5th. That's crazy!

March was interesting. I began CBT therapy. It was supposed to be DBT, but the groups were full. Regardless, my therapist is trained in both, so it seems to be fine. It's been better than seeing a school therapist by far.

I've been looking into getting an emotional support animal. My psychiatrist said it would be a good idea, but that the school would get in trouble if the animal caused damage. So far, I've seen nothing to corroborate that, but I didn't want to push it. My therapist also said it would be a good idea (a great idea, even), but he seemed to be under the impression that only my psychiatrist could prescribe one. So, I'm going to try to tell them both about the laws and see if they'd be comfortable prescribing one.

I also think it would be a good idea because of how much it's helped to have A VIOLA!!!

Yup, Stephen bought me a viola. Unfortunately, because of my sleeping schedule, I haven't been able to play it much, but it's been fun. It's SO beautiful - especially with the new strings on! This feels a bit over-dramatic to say, but I feel like I have an identity again. Before, I had nothing I love besides Stephen. Honestly, I think I got this gift so Stephen could have some more time to himself! Anyway, it's gorgeous, and Stephen is amazing. 

Stephen has been working hard. He recently earned $20 in commission, and a gift card to a virtual gaming store. He's been doing a great job of supporting us both financially. Also, we celebrated his birthday by going to Roy's Pizza in Ephraim!

Road Trip

It was good!

Stephen's father and younger siblings came to visit for a few days. We didn't see each other much but, when we did, it was nice. We definitely got some good pictures in, at least.

It was an extremely bright day, but not as bright as those smiles!

Anyway, things have been surprisingly stable in the Stannard household. Not easy, not perfect, but certainly stable. And, I think, better. So we're pretty happy with that.